History

Southdowns Manor is an unspoiled historic house, constructed near the end of the 19th century by Hon John Hervis Carnegie, who was the High Sheriff of Sussex in 1862 and the third son of the 7th Earl of Northesk. His initials can still be seen today on a stone boundary post, left of the Southdowns Manor entrance.

Southdowns Manor was then sold around 1895, which saw the construction of the top floor and the water tower, and was for a while the home of Rudolf Blind, a German artist. It was then run as an independent school, and during the war it was a billet for The Royal Canadian Air Force. It was purchased by the Tabor Group in 2013, and has since been a luxurious wedding venue.

About

Exclusive & Intimate Celebrations

At Southdowns Manor, every wedding is entirely private, allowing couples to celebrate in their own way. Whether planning an intimate gathering or a grand celebration, the venue offers flexible spaces to suit any vision. Licensed for civil ceremonies, couples can exchange vows in one of the beautifully designed indoor suites or opt for a romantic outdoor ceremony beneath the charming garden gazebo.

Ceremony & Reception Spaces

Outdoor Gazebo – A breathtaking setting for an al fresco ceremony, surrounded by nature. (Up to 120 guests)
Sussex Room – A stylish space with a fully stocked bar and open fireplace, perfect for welcoming guests. (Up to 40 guests for a drinks reception)
Conservatory – Flooded with natural light, this intimate room is ideal for smaller celebrations. (Up to 40 guests for a ceremony, 30 for dining)
Banqueting Suite – The heart of the venue, featuring a twinkling starlit ceiling and elegant décor for a magical wedding breakfast and evening reception. (Up to 120 for dining, 200 for evening celebrations)

Exceptional Dining & Catering

The award-winning in-house chefs at Southdowns Manor create exquisite wedding breakfasts, gourmet canapés, and indulgent evening feasts. From a formal multi-course dining experience to a relaxed hog roast or barbecue, couples can customise their wedding menu. A carefully curated selection of fine wines, Champagnes, and signature cocktails ensures a perfect pairing for every meal.

Luxury Accommodation for You & Your Guests

Newlyweds can retreat to the honeymoon suite, a secluded four-poster haven, perfect for a romantic first night. With 14 elegantly designed ensuite guest rooms, family and friends can stay overnight, turning the celebration into a truly unforgettable wedding weekend. A dedicated bridal preparation suite is also available from 10:30 AM on the wedding morning, featuring a spacious dressing room, full-length mirrors, and a luxury bathroom.

Plan Your Dream Wedding at Southdowns Manor

Southdowns Manor is committed to making every wedding as stress-free and seamless as possible. The expert wedding coordination team ensures every detail is perfectly planned, allowing couples to relax and enjoy their special day.

Real Weddings

Southdowns Manor have created a stunning wedding blog to help you imagine your wedding day! With beautiful pictures and a little walk through of the big day itself, you'll begin to picture your wedding day at this gorgeous venue.

Packages

SIMPLY SOUTHDOWNS PACKAGE

The Simply package provides everything you need for a flawless wedding day from start to finish. You’ll have all the essentials, along with the option to personalise with additional touches or accommodation that make your day uniquely yours. From the excitement of getting ready on the morning of your wedding to a beautiful ceremony, delicious wedding breakfast, and an unforgettable evening reception, every moment will be truly memorable.

Spring from £6,500
Summer from £7,500
Autumn from £6,500
Winter from £5,500

Included in the day:

Exclusive use venue hire for 24 hours with ample parking
Private use of our classical country gardens & grounds
A personal Wedding Planner to manage & assist your day
A personal Wedding Planner to manage & assist your day
Classic cocktails, Prosecco & bottled beer reception drinks
Four canapés per person during reception drinks
Three course wedding breakfast meal with tea, coffee & truffles
Half a bottle of wine per adult guest to accompany the meal
A glass of Prosecco each for the speeches
Full bar facilities including staff
A sumptuous evening buffet
Overnight stay in our Honeymoon Suite with breakfast the following day

Plus lots of additional extras including:

Chair sashes in a colour of your choice for our Chiavari chairs
Use of our aisle carpet
Easel for your table plan

Use of our silver cake stand & knife
Non-consumables including furnishings, linen & decoration
Waiting staff
PA system for your speeches, background & ceremony music

The Simply Southdowns Package is based on 50 adult daytime guests. Additional day guests £120 per person. Additional evening guests £25 per person. All prices shown include VAT. This package includes the wedding couple in the adult day guest numbers. Not to be used in conjunction with any other offer. Terms and conditions apply.

SIMPLY SOUTHDOWNS TWO DAY PACKAGE

Arrive the day before and spend some quality time with family and friends over a delicious meal, before retiring to the comfort of our luxurious rooms. Then wake up, fully refreshed, to celebrate your wedding day with your nearest and dearest.

Spring from £8,500
Summer from £8,500
Autumn from £8,500
Winter from £8,500

Included the day before:

Exclusive use venue hire for 2 days with ample parking
Arrive from 3pm the day prior
Choice from our evening buffet menu for up to 30 guests
14 guest bedrooms to accommodate up to 30 guests

Included on your wedding day:

Private use of our classical country gardens & grounds
A personal Wedding Planner to manage & assist your day
Relax & prepare in our changing rooms
Classic cocktails, Prosecco & bottled beer reception drinks
Four canapés per person during reception drinks
Three course wedding breakfast meal with tea, coffee & truffles
Half a bottle of wine per adult guest to accompany the meal
A glass of Prosecco each for the speeches
Full bar facilities including staff
Enjoy a sumptuous evening buffet
14 guest bedrooms to accommodate up to 30 guests
Overnight stay in our Honeymoon Suite with breakfast the following day

Plus lots of additional extras including:

Breakfast on the two mornings of your stay
Chair sashes in a colour of your choice for our Chiavari chairs
Use of our aisle carpet
Easel for your table plan
Non-consumables including furnishings, linen & decoration
Waiting staff

Use of our silver cake stand & knife
PA system for your speeches, background & ceremony music

The Simply Southdowns Two Day Package is based on 30 adult daytime guests for the day before and 50 adult daytime guests on the wedding day. Additional day guests £120 per person. Additional evening guests £25 per person. All prices shown include VAT. This package includes the wedding couple in the adult day guest numbers. Not to be used in conjunction with any other offer. Terms and conditions apply.

SIGNATURE PACKAGE

The Signature package transforms your wedding from timeless to truly unforgettable. It includes everything in the all-inclusive Simply Southdowns Package, plus an array of premium extras. Enjoy upgraded food and drink menus, a luxurious Honeymoon Suite to cap off your night in style, and unlimited access to all of the venue styling options – allowing you to elevate your wedding day with added elegance, all included in the cost.

SPRING from £15,000
Summer from £15,000
Autumn from £15,000
Winter from £15,000

Included in the day:

Exclusive use venue hire for 24 hours with ample parking
Private use of the classical country gardens & grounds
A personal Wedding Planner to manage & assist your day
Relax & prepare in the changing rooms (early access available)
Cocktails, exquisite house Champagne & premium bottled beer reception drinks
Four canapés per person during reception drinks
Complimentary menu and food upgrades
Half a bottle of luxurious wine per adult guest to accompany the meal
A glass of exquisite house Champagne each for the speeches
Three course wedding breakfast meal with tea, coffee & petit fours
14 guest bedrooms to accommodate up to 30 guests
Overnight stay in the Honeymoon Suite with breakfast the following day
Additional extras included worth over £2,000

Plus lots of additional extras including:

Unlimited venue visits on non-wedding days
Wedding card post box
Rustic ladder

Audio guestbook

Aisle carpet

 Vintage mirror easel
Double chair sashes in a colour of your choice for the Chiavari chairs
Blossom trees

Table runners
Full bar facilities including staff
Two sets of LOVE lights
Waiting staff

All non-consumables including furnishings, linen & decoration
PA system for your speeches, background & ceremony music
Silver cake stand & knife
Lanterns

Starlight backdrop
Sweet cart

Selfie Mirror
Sumptuous evening buffet
Resident DJ

The Signature Package is based on 50 adult daytime guests.
Additional day guests £178 per person. Additional evening guests £35 per person. All prices shown include VAT. This package includes the wedding couple in the adult day guest numbers. Not to be used in conjunction with any other offer. Terms and conditions apply.

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